THE ECCENTRIC

LOVE, LIFE and EMOTION

fundamentals of love and attraction...

 

 

LOVE IS ONE OF THE REALITY OF LIFE.


Vimal is very unhappy with his life, but people can't understand why he behaves like an unhappy person! After all, he has a successful career as a software engineer. He works in a MNC and be paid handsomely. He has his own Honda City car, a three bedroom apartment at a posh area, he has a decent looks and a very good social life. But, still he is unhappy and it gives him an undue stress of very high intensity. As a result he has been suffering from acute depression.

But, what is the reason of his unhappyness. Well, the reason is very common, he lacked love in his life. Although, he has lots of friends, and despite the fact that nearly half of his friend circle constitutes beautiful girls and women, he is without any girlfriend and this is the pain that pricking up incessantly. The reason behind his depression is the absence of love in his life. The love is a primary requirement of a human being.

Human always want to love and be loved but no one can actually define love in a deterministic way. But with the advent of modern science with an technology like MRI that domain of the most complex structure slowly started to revealing its shades... and surprisingly could relate certain chemical reactions to the different aspects of human emotion up to a certain level. The latest technology which is named as fMRI or functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging, is a non invasive brain scanning process which is used to locate the enhanced neural activities each associated as different perceptional as well as emotional states of a human being. Introduction of new technology like fMRI let scientists to have sneak peak inside the human brain.

What is Love? Arguably the most talked about human emotion is very difficult to define by words still there must be some scientific phenomenon which when executed induces the feeling of love inside the human brain. So what are those processes responsible to trigger a human emotional stretch? Neuro-Transmitters and Human Emotions: there are certain complex molecules in our brain which carries specific informations about the sensory excitation received through other sensory organs. Among them most importants are Seretonin, Dopamine, Noradrenaline.

The mechanics of love is very different, as it has atleast guessed that somehow our emotions are related with certain chemical reaction, there exists a chance to manipulate human emotions with the help of externally induced those chemical reactions inside our brain. Love is nothing but some sorts of virus attack, which takes control of the host, here we are the host. And the idea of love is the virus better we can say viral information or Meme. A meme can spread exponentially.

Reciprocity is one of the many stunning characteristics of an emotional love between two souls. I strongly believe that if love for something that you want become so intense that it crosses a threshold barrier than the nature itself conspire to let the hold of your desired one to your hand. The chain of events would create such a situation that it would be impossible to avoid the outcome and perhaps that is the thing we would like to express as our fate. In fact, fatalism, the branch of philosophy that deals with the role of fate in human life often predicts the phenomena of the Conspiracy of the nature. I personally feels that love is not just an human emotion, but a fundamental state of being that is shared by not only human but also other life forms as well as the inanimate world too.

I believe in everlasting love, the magnitude of love can not be quantized or monetize to judge its value as it is simply invaluable, it is not possible to get love by exchanging money or assets! Love is perpetual, love doesn't obey any boundaries either geographical, racial, or caste-based! Neither it can be ordered, nor it can be purchased, it is divine love that blesses us with love, it is divine fate that decides we would get love or not....!

"Love is divine. Love is something that exists upto some extent beyond our perception. Love is warm, its warmth always eludes human generation after generation!" So what is love? If someone says, "I love you", then what does she actually means? We are very sensitive to touches and it has a deep relationships with love. So, what is the role of touches in the expression of love. What are the differences between different manifestations of love. Love for an object is entirely different from the love expressed for fellow human being. Again there exists a difference between love for siblings and the love for the spouses... Life is very much unpredictable and no one can assure about a certain future! Does ever love die? No, love never dies, may be due to some parameters of life intensity of love may fluctuate a bit, but pure emotion is very hard to die....! whenever I tried to find something having a deeper connotations about love, I always used to stumble upon a basic question about love and emotion! suppose I say that I love her. now to explain this sentence correctly, one has to decide what does the word "I" mean here at the first step...this implied the fact that before anything else to describe about human emotion and love one has to define the human consciousness first, then we should proceed.

Does the patterns of intimacy ever change with the change of the surroundings..? do you think that there is actually no change in the intensity of love in the days of crisis as well as the blooming love during its heyday? do you feel that a love affair can have a start when the situation is not favourable in stead of being friendly? IF my eyes were not wrong then I must say, it is the crisis time when one needs his/her spousal support at their best, generally it has been seen the opposite in many cases as in this crucial periods misunderstanding creeps up, whose effects ultimately leads to permanent separation... if we want to save our society, we must stop it, as our most of the human resources would be tensed up in the workplace also and definite it would affect our productivity. WHY did misunderstanding creeps in a otherwise stable relations? Nobody knows it actually but I am certain about some facts those I decided to reveal although I can't prove that.

Love is a unconventional proposition. Too much love actually spoils your love. you know if you love your girlfriend or boyfriend more than anything else in this world but one should never disclose to his love. as it only spoils once partner. so it must not be expressed vehemently. one should always hide it from others as it is an weakness/ a chink in the armour of you. so it must always remember to be cautious while expressing your love. My love affair has been undergone a volcanic change! Infact it is very hard to understand the underlying deep connotations of the emotional aspects of love. So viatal yet so enigmatic. When for the first time I felt something stupid that were going on in our life, I was instantly metamorphed into stone out of shock and fear.